You Are Entitled to Your Opinion

But not absolution from the consequences

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We often hear people complaining they’re being discriminated against, losing friends and acquaintances, and even being “cancelled” because of the opinions and beliefs they hold and express, or the practices they engage in. Somehow they seem to feel that they should be able to hold, express and practice without consequence.

Because, of course, they believe their position is correct. As the One True Answer, it should obviously be honored and respected. Not to do so is, itself, disrespectful.

That’s not how it works.

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What If You Missed The Meeting?

A framework for keeping your mouth shut

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We love our opinions. We really do. We’re so proud of them, and we’re so eager to share them with anyone who’ll listen, and many who won’t.

And yet, there’s the adage: “Opinions are like assholes: everyone has one, and no one wants to see yours.”

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On Opinions

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Particularly with the rise of social media, it seems to have become our job to have an opinion about absolutely everything.

From the latest celebrity gossip to political scandals to neighborhood complaints, we’re all encouraged to “Like” or comment and otherwise share how we feel about the situation.

It’s almost a requirement. If you don’t have an opinion, apparently you’re not paying attention! How awful!

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