Every Day is an Experiment – Blog Edition

Every post is an experiment

My blog, versus weeds.
My blog, versus the weeds. (Image: ChatGPT)

I’m experimenting a little with my personal blog. The TL;DR: is that:

  • I’m adding social media posts to my blog, where they’ll be auto-posted on a few social media sites.
  • Normal posts (longer form essays like this one) will be auto-posted to the socials as well.
  • Normal posts will trigger emailed notifications to those who’ve signed up, social media posts will not.

If you’re curious about the why, and perhaps even the how, keep reading.

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Rituals

These aren’t your parents rituals. Or maybe they are.

Ritual Objects (a flight of beer)
Ritual Objects (photo: leonotenboom.com)

The word “ritual” has interesting overtones.

I know for many it has very specific religious meanings. For example, having grown up Catholic, I get that. I’ve lived it. Catholicism is full of rituals.

But I love when people expand their view on what it means, particularly in a more secular direction.

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ChatGPT and Images

With ChatGPT’s new image generation capabilities, I decided to play. Specifically, I wanted to see how weill it would take this image:

Overly Excited Leo
Overly Excited Leo

from the Ask Leo! home page, and re-render it in different styles. (Click on any for larger, if you dare.)

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The Threshold of Intelligence

Does the source matter?

Good and Evil Bots
(Image: ChatGPT)

AI is a simulation of intelligence. It’s right there in the name: artificial — not real — intelligence.

AGI, or Artificial General Intelligence is “a type of highly autonomous artificial intelligence (AI) intended to match or surpass human capabilities across most or all economically valuable cognitive work.”

A good way to think of it is that AI tends to be single task or limited in task focus, whereas AGI is, again by its very name, general purpose, where “general purpose” translates to “anything humans could choose to do”. I’m not sure I concur with Wikipedia’s inclusion of “economically valuable”, though.

But when questioning whether it’s actually intelligent, that pesky “A” is still there.

The real question should be: does it matter?

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The Biggest Lesson From TikTok

Whether it comes back or not.

A comic style image of a digital house of cards made of smartphones and social media app icons, with some cards slightly tilted or about to fall, symbolizing the precarious nature of digital platforms.
(Image: DALL-E 3)

(This seems like something I’d more commonly post on Ask Leo!, but it feels a tad off-target for my audience there, so here it is in my personal blog. Enjoy. Smile)

As I first wrote this, the TikTok platform was no longer accessible in the United States. It’s since returned, at least temporarily. For how long we don’t know. 90 days? Longer? Permanently? Who knows?

TikTok allowed for the rise of what I’ll call the “accidental entrepreneur”. These are folks who began posting for fun, and then gained popularity to the point of generating enough revenue to be a small business. Several even quit their day jobs in favor of content creation on TikTok. It’s an awesome story.

Unfortunately, though, some of them are learning a hard lesson today. It’s a lesson every online business person needs to learn, and be periodically reminded of.

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What’s the Worst That Could Happen?

It’s rarely as dire as we imagine

A hand holding a red pill, and a hand holding a blue pill.
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When I was approaching sixteen, it was still important, and even “cool,” to get your driver’s license as soon as possible. In my case, it was extra important, since we were about to move, and I’d need to drive to continue going to the same high school.

No pressure.

Looking back, I’m surprised by the approach I took. It’s an approach that has served me well throughout life.

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Where Do Friends Go?

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It’s easy to believe that friendships, once established, will last forever, or at least a very long time. Particularly when we’re young, there’s little evidence to the contrary.

And then we grow up.

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“Ok Boomer” and the Generational Divide

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One thing I dislike about the phrase “OK, boomer”, besides its incredible condescension, is that it pretends all individuals of a certain generation are alike.

Trust me when I tell you we are not.

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The Flag and the Flag

US flag on a flagpole with a progress pride flag beneath it.
(photo: leonotenboom.com)

It was time to replace our well worn U.S. flag, but I was hesitant.

I’d planned on raising the new flag the day after the election, with the assumption that Harris would win. Needless to say that didn’t happen.

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Like? Subscribe! Support!!

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“Traditional media” is broken. It’s an echo chamber for singular perspectives that are driven by business and other interests. Examples abound, but the perhaps the most clear was Washington Post’s recent failure to endorse any presidential candidate. It’s a billionaire owner making a decision not because it’s good for the public or the press, but to protect his interests from a certain outcome. It appears to have paid off, perhaps at the cost of the country.

“Social media” is broken. Algorithms control what we see, and what we see is an attention bubble full of engagement bait. Most social media platforms exist only to show us more of what we’ll engage with, rather than what we actually ask for. Platforms that don’t are struggling because people end up finding their feeds, while exactly what they asked for, boring in comparison.

So, what’s the solution?

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Which Love Is It?

Perhaps the biggest misunderstanding of all

On the left, two men are standing and holding hands, both wearing rainbow pins, symbolizing love and acceptance of diverse sexual orientations. On the right, a preacher stands elevated above a fiery pit symbolizing hell, with flames and brimstone beneath. The preacher holds a religious text and gestures as if delivering a passionate sermon about salvation. The scene captures the contrast between love as acceptance and love as saving souls.
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Everyone seems to assume there’s just one definition of “love”: theirs.

One person’s quest to love is another’s heinous act.

And no, this isn’t a sex thing.

It’s a religion thing.

Does love mean accepting people or saving their souls?

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Clapbacks Are Just One Hand Clapping

They’re not as clever, or as impactful, as you think

A PC computer screen showing two people on opposite sides of the screen, pointing fingers at each other and laughing mockingly. Both individuals appear to be engaged in a heated yet sarcastic exchange, with exaggerated facial expressions.
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I rarely go a day without seeing a social media comment that “politician A just put politician B in their place!” or that “A scored massive points with their clapback to B!”.

“A clapback is a quick, sharp, and often witty response to criticism or disrespect. The term is often used to describe a comeback that is particularly effective or memorable.”
– via perplexity.ai

No. Just … no.

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Cancel Culture: It’s Always Been Here

An ancient practice gets a new name

'Cancel culture' in a historical and modern context. The foreground shows a group of people turning their backs on an individual in a realistic modern setting like a busy town square, with natural lighting and vibrant, lifelike colors. In the background, a figure from ancient times is being ostracized in a traditional village scene, also in realistic colors. The scene includes subtle modern elements like smartphones or social media icons to represent how technology plays a role in modern cancel culture.

Cancel culture isn’t new; we’ve done it since humanity’s dawn. It’s critical to a functional society. The fact it seems special lately is due to a) a new name and b) faster and wider communication.

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Things I Learned From My Father

A timely word I remember to this day

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I’ve learned many things from my father, and I’m grateful for all of it.

Some I learned by example, some by counterexample, and some simply by listening to what I was being told.

It’s the latter that comes to mind today. All because of bears.

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What “They” Believe

It’s not as simple as just being “wrong”

Preacher

I ran across this comment via social media the other day.

You don’t have to approve of other people’s choices. You don’t have to like their hair color, their tattoos, or their piercings. You don’t need to agree with their style of dress or how tight their leggings are. You’re not required to agree with their non-traditional lifestyle or their relationship decisions. And you don’t need to like their religion, faith, or spiritual beliefs. What you DO need to do is respect that other people don’t have to live by your rules, because they’re no more important or relevant than anyone else’s. Acting like a decent human being and letting people live their lives should be an easy decision for everyone.

Here’s the problem: if you understand what “they” believe and why they believe it, you’ll quickly see it’s not an easy decision. Not at all.

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Fascism, the Past, and Our Future

Please don’t let history repeat itself.

The Stone Man
“The stone man” (1953), National monument: Prisoner before the firing squad in Camp Amersfoort/The Netherlands. Click for larger image. (Image: leonotenboom.com)

My parents lived in The Netherlands during World War II. The country was occupied by the Germans for several years prior to the war’s end. My parents lived through that occupation, including the famine.

This was not just some “inconvenience”. My father told me stories of diving into ditches to avoid being captured and conscripted by a passing Nazi patrol. He and his brother did get captured once, but in a fit of “either way we’re probably dead” decision making, when they saw an opportunity to run, they did. They got lucky.

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Unexpected side-effects

In praise of reading better stuff

A peaceful scene of a person sitting on a park bench in a lush green park, engrossed in reading from a Kindle. The park is vibrant with blooming flowers and tall trees, casting soft shadows on the pathway. A gentle breeze is rustling the leaves, adding to the serene atmosphere. The person is casually dressed, embodying the relaxation of a leisurely day spent outdoors. Birds can be seen in the background, and the sun is setting, casting a warm glow over the scene. The image should capture the tranquility of a moment spent alone with a book, away from the hustle and bustle of daily life.

When I started 7 Takeaways, my intent was to force myself to read more, better content, by establishing a weekly public deadline where I’d publish something about the items I had come across.

Three and a half years later, I’d say it’s been working. I haven’t missed a week (though there have been a few Saturday cram sessions), and I’ve come across some interesting stuff.

And I have 600+ subscribers to whom I feel a responsibility.

What’s interesting, though, is that it hasn’t affected me in quite the way I expected.

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